Divorces Peak in January. Here's Why.

Was your festive lunch all sweetness and light? We meet the couples who say: 'Christmas killed our marriage'. An article appearing in dailymail.co.uk written on Christmas Day.

From the article:

Lawyers across Britain report that the annual New Year's dash to file for divorce is second only to the stampede at the Harrods sale.

'January is our busiest time,' explains Lindsey Canning, a lawyer with Wake Smith & Tofields in Sheffield. Family rows, infidelity at the office Christmas party, and money worries are the reasons most commonly cited by couples filing for divorce at this time of year.

'The credit crunch is putting extra pressure on couples, causing more rows about finance and resentment if they can't really afford to divorce and sell their home in the current climate.'

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Caution is the Better Part of Valor - Week of December 16

CUIDADO - Be Careful

This time of year - astrologically (specific only to this time), PLUS the holidays PLUS the economic situation has emotions set high. It's running in the background for all of us, and it clouds clear thinking.

It's easy for misunderstandings to happen now.

General advice for all signs for the next couple of weeks:

1. Be especially careful with communication with close friends, lovers and colleagues.


1. Expect what you say to be misinterpreted settling off a constellation of misunderstanding.


2. If this happens, take time immediately to address it or it will escalate which will complicate your life even more and add more stress


3. Slow down. Say less. Keep busy and slap on a veneer.


4. Put it off if you can.
   

Of course "A stitch in time saves nine." In other words, watch your words. The smartest thing to do is approach all communication with care. Think before you say it.

Resists ALL URGES to blurt something out. This is simply not the time. In other words, the thing you're most likely to want to say is the thing you'll regret having said later.

If all else fails, disengage and walk away. A lot of people are just plain out looking for a fight - to relieve the tension.

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A Gift from Your Reader at This Hard Saturn-Uranus Opp

The Saturn-Uranus opposition would be enough stress (the old, the new; the push, the pull; caution v. adventure; whiplash offers given and rescinded; indecision!!) but we have the Pluto transit as well.

AND THEN THERE'S THE HOLIDAYS starting to amp up more every day. Plus the economy.

Ways my clients are using this energy:

1. Resting and being good to themselves.
2. Tabling anything that can be tabled.
3. Waiting to see how and when the ball will drop.
4. Taking action on things that now are clearly over -- Filing for divorce. Cutting the funds off to the adult kid who won't get a job. Moving to another city. Changing jobs. Getting rid of negative friends.
5. Praying for intuition and guidance from Spirit.
6. Getting a Pluto reading. $50. Please send time, date and place of birth.
7. Getting a Spiritual Life Purpose Report. (To order click here.) Please send time, place and date of birth. Report will be emailed to you.
6. Getting frequent readings.

MY GIFT TO YOU: A free mini-reading by email. Send time, date and place of birth, and one concern only for this reading. Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc and mention this offer.

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