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What's up with those gorgeous, secretive Scorpios these days?
Found on a website. The topic at hand was how unattractive it is to be needy on any level.
This was the reply:
I agree with this one: "how unattractive it is to be needy on any level"
Neediness is rooted in fear and cowardice & it is a really debilitating and ugly emotion to carry.
I know because I'm fighting temporary neediness right now!! LOL.
And as a Scorp, I hate feeling I need someone... but sometimes you just ache.
Scorpios do have a hard time "admitting" things like needing someone, like they think it's a weakness or something. I don't think it's rooted in fear and cowardice, but that's the way those normally COURGEOUS Scorpios sometimes look at it. Especially during this Pluto transit that's stressing us in points where we need to loosen up and/or change or grow. It could even be some karma in your chart we could take a look at.
We need each other. It's the DESPERATE neediness that needs a second look. And yes, sometimes we do just ache.
Need to talk about this? Email me to schedule a reading - sdunn@susandunn.cc .
AND SO SHE ASKED HER WISE GUIDE, WHAT SHALL I DO??
How to get through this period of Saturn-Uranus, and Pluto ...
This is the horoscope for Leos from astro.com, but it is good advice for you, whatever your sign, and for any day, not just today.
As you watch the sun dip below the horizon tonight and you observe the clouds turning from pink to purple, review the day, Susan. Lock your head in with your heart and make sure that the two are in tune. Think about your emotions and thought patterns of the day and how they affected your actions. Determine if your actions were a result of either your rational mind or your fluctuating moods.
If you would like to learn more about this getting the head and heart together, let me know. I offer a course in emotional intelligence, because that's about your emotions (intuition) and your intelligence(thinking).
Part of this is learning about "hemisphere dominance.: Take this online 'test' and let me know how you do. Or click and past this into your browser: http://www.news.com.au/perthnow/story/0,21598,22492511-5005375,00.html
Those of you who have already taken it, if you could make the lady change directions at will, you'll have an easier time switching from intuition to intellectual thinking. Take the test. If you can't make her change directions, or she doesn't automatically change directions, I can give you some of the ways my clients have been able to do this.
Intuition (heart, right-brain) is best for knowing what you really want. Then use your intellect to map out the strategy. I can help you with both.
Your INTUITION is what tells you what is true to your heart.
Those of you who could make the dancing lady change directions now know that you can switch from left to right brain at will. Use intuition first. Get your answer. (During this transit,this procedure can take a lot of time, and some back and forth. Both alternatives are likely to have some appeal. It is also likely at least one other option will enter the picture for you.
The Saturn-Uranus opposition would be enough stress (the old, the new; the push, the pull; caution v. adventure; whiplash offers given and rescinded; indecision!!) but we have the Pluto transit as well.
AND THEN THERE'S THE HOLIDAYS starting to amp up more every day. Plus the economy.
Ways my clients are using this energy:
1. Resting and being good to themselves. 2. Tabling anything that can be tabled. 3. Waiting to see how and when the ball will drop. 4. Taking action on things that now are clearly over -- Filing for divorce. Cutting the funds off to the adult kid who won't get a job. Moving to another city. Changing jobs. Getting rid of negative friends. 5. Praying for intuition and guidance from Spirit. 6. Getting a Pluto reading. $50. Please send time, date and place of birth. 7. Getting a Spiritual Life Purpose Report. (To order click here.) Please send time, place and date of birth. Report will be emailed to you. 6. Getting frequent readings.
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Lindsay Lohan doused with flour? Rough week for celebs, says yahoo. Well it's probably been a rough week for YOU too. EXHAUSTION seems to be the rule ... you're either sick or you've hurt yourself, with this energy. We need a break. And maybe you're thinking a little flour on your coat would be mild compared to what's been thrown at you?
PLUTO and URANUS/SATURN continue to wreak havoc in our lives. OH THE DRAMA.
But Pluto deals with magic ... real magic ... like a cardinal in the midst of winter ... the intricate beauty of a snowflake ... like a tiny seed that grows into a mighty oak tree ... like transforming you into the person you always wanted to be ... like looking into the eyes of your true love ... like getting what you always wanted finally ...
Yes, you're probably getting slammed around right now. It's part of it. Saturn wants to control, but Uranus pulls out into left field.
You clamp down and there's revolt. You loosen up and someone else plays the heavy. You thought you'd made up your mind (Saturn) but no one and nothing is cooperating with you (Uranus).
You decided to move and they beg you to stay. You say and they 'agree' you're better off going. Huh????
Let's just say the cat's out of the bag and you aren't going to be stuffing it back in.
How to handle all this drama? Be in a 'preference' state, not a 'demand' state. You don't want to rouse someone else to play the role of Saturn or Uranus or to play those roles in someone else's drama. Watch out for turning it inward and getting sick - or outward, and getting hurt. Move slowly and with care.
Hammered? Getting batted about like a birdie? Call me and lets talk about it. What you want and how to get there. AND ABOUT WHAT'S GOING ON WITH THAT SIGNIFICANT OTHER!!!!
Key for the week - tone it down. Others will over-interpret, over-react.
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Perfect timing for us all, as Saturn opposes Uranus; perfect timing for us all, as we will all have Saturn Returns.
Saturn Returns take place roughly every 30 years in our life - at 28-30, 58-60, and 88-90. A Saturn Return presents you with an opportunity for a second chance, third chance at life. It's about growing up (Saturn) and also about growing.
The play Saturn Returns is written by Noah Haidle. In the off-Broadway play, 70 minutes without an intermission, one man, Gustin (played by 3 different actors), takes a look at his life and the three women in it.
Murphy describes Saturn's Return as a crisis of confidence and identity, as you reach an age where you are "asked to lock some things in and it tests some decisions and choices you have made...I was interested in the notion of a more authentic person emerging after this process of upheaval and the consolidation of adulthood."
What to expect from a Saturn Return? Changes. Decisions. Lessons Saturn is trying to teach you. For more on this, I defer to my esteemed colleague, astrologer Nancy Fenn. You simply MUST get a Saturn Return Reading from her - first, second, or third. Nancy Fenn is the nation's Saturn Return Expert. Nancy Fenn was chosen SATURN RETURN EXPERT for the gigantic self growth community served by SELF GROWTH, the #1 Self Improvement Site On The Web, as Ranked by Google and Yahoo!
Many people are confused about the Saturn Return. Maturity is no protection. It's about choosing your real life instead of the one you thought was yours....If you have been pursuing a career or lifestyle to please someone else, there is a sense of urgency at the Saturn Return to make important changes."
The band Tool also wrote a song called Saturn's Return which you can see below.
LYRICS
Saturn comes back around. Lifts you up like a child or Drags you down like a stone To consume you till you choose to let this go.
Give away the stone. Let the oceans take and transmutate this cold and fated anchor. Give away the stone. Let the waters kiss and transmutate these leaden grudges into gold. Let go.
What's it all about? If you are approaching one of your Saturn Returns, contact Nancy Fenn.
What Pluto demands is change. He wants to remove from your life the things that aren't working. This allows you to move forward, sometimes in a totally new direction.
A Pluto Transit cantruly put you at your wit's end. Often the thing you really want will require your giving up something of great value to you. Something you are very attached to. Sometimes the thing you love the most.
Examples: To get the body you want, you have to give up food. To get peace of mind, you have to leave your dysfunctional family. To marry the man you love, you have to leave your Father. To get your dream job you have to give up being able to tavel every 3 months. To be able to travel every 3 months, you have to give up a fancy car. And, when it hits even closer to the core - to grow and transform, you must change and give up past behavior patterns. To become your own person you have to give up being dependent on other people's thoughts and opinions.
The conflicts and decisions in a Pluto transit can be excruciating. I'm with you in thought and prayer, and ready to guide you on your path. Pluto Transit reading for $50. Email me to order yours. Must have date, time and place of birth.
You can also order one about someone you love, to learn more, or to give it to them.
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