Gemini with Flirting Boyfriend

GEMINI WOMAN DEALS WITH FLIRTING SAG

Dear Semiramis,
Can you help? I'm dating this guy and it drives me nuts because he gawks at other women and flirts with them when we are out. I think he's faithful to me, and it's a good relationship, but I'm still bothered by it. He tells me not to worry about it. However, he complained about my weight and I lost weight, so I think he could do this for me. What should I do?

Dear Gem,

When I looked at your charts, it explained a lot. First of all with your Saturn square his sun and moon, you THINK you should be able to ignore this, that it shouldn't bother you, but it really hits you where you live. In your FEELINGS. It's like "I understand this intellectually, but I can't put up with it emotionally." And you'd think he's return the favor to you, wouldn't you? Why does he do it? His Venus is in Cancer, so he just craves the attention of women, lots of women, all women. Yuch. he's also got Sagittarius rising, so he does NOT like to be told what to do. So if you tell him not to do it, it makes it all the more exciting for him. You beg "stop!" and he begs "don't nag, don't boss me around." Dilemma.

So that explains a lot. Now, what to do about it? Hmmm.

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Mars and Pluto - en garde

Take care on Friday when Mars moves into opposition with Pluto, and Pluto moves from Sagittarius (been there since 1995) into Capricorn.

Mars-Pluto pits the war god against the dark Lord so be prepared for petty disputes, bit power struggles, nasty conflicts surfacing or re-surfacing.

And you thought I was talking about between you and others? Yes, could be ... or between you and you. What you want and what's thwarting you.

Yes, it's especially tempting to externalize these and project them onto others in lots of cases of 'mistaken identities', i.e., He feels like cheating so he accuses you of cheating. Your father had a bad temper, so you provoke your husband to have one.

Definitely a time for tire-slashing, ranting and raving, accusing others, starting nasty rumors, getting defensive ... and losing it.

In fact, take care on the 21st. If you're the kind of takes it out on yourself (having a fender-bender, losting your keys, 'forgetting' a deadline), take care. And watch out for those who take their nasties out on others, i.e., car accidents, turning you in to your boss, going after your guy, even acts of violence.

Leo - here's a note for you, your majesty. If someone else is the boss, take it easy. Acknowledge it, and then get busy. This is no time for a power play.