Aquarius and Leo? Can there be love.

Is anyone home??

Can you tell me what to do? I'm a Leo and I fell in love with an Aquarius. It has turned out to cause me more tears than any romance I've been in, yet he keeps pulling me back into it. He will occasionally say the things I like and need to hear, and then he becomes totally distant. I'm so confused. He tells me all the time (he's a doctor) how important it is to LISTEN to people (his patients), but he sure doesn't listen to ME. He can be so cold I can't believe it. Once in the middle of a state-of-the-art relationship talk, he took a phone call. Sometimes he'll go weeks without getting together with me. What am I doing wrong? Is this just a bad match? I can't figure out what attracted me to him in the first place. --Saneetra

The trouble with this pairing is that the two signs have definitions of LOVE that are almost diametrically opposed.

Aquarian, despite being thought to be the lovers of people, are not so demonstrative about a person in general. They are always at a distance, without sentimental committment.

The Leo needs lots of romanticism and sentiment, and rarely does a Aquarius fit the bill. They start strong (what man doesn't) and then, it's off to IMPORTANT things, generally Aquarian, like saving the world, taking care of "people", climbing mountains, anything but the woman they're with.

It's possible for some Leos and Aquarians to function, but it's more like "function," if you know what I mean. Aquarians are intellectuals, not very interested in their emotional side. They often think it "silly." I remember counseling one Aquarian that he needed to work on his emotional intelligence, and he said, laughing, "you can't be emotional AND be intelligent." Uh oh.

The only saving grace is if the Aquarian understands the Leo pride. To be ignored is not going to work with a Leo.

I'd look elsewhere. He's drawn to you for what he's missing, but he can't connect to it.

If you're in a relationship, let me do a compatibility reading for you. Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .

Why isn't your relationship working?

I'm so glad Cynthia called for a reading. She's a Leo with a Scorpio rising and has been dating an Aquarius with a Pisces rising for some time and things weren't going well, though she told me she adored the man.

Looking at his chart, who wouldn't adore him? An amateur classical pianist, working in the healing arts, interested in poetry and opera and full of "the belle phrase." But nothing in his chart to indicate he had any interest in, or aptitude for, being the provider, protector, and married/family man that Cynthia wanted in her lifetime partner.

Important for Cynthia to 'get' that no one could ground this spirit, not even her or his love for her!

He isn't a bad person, he just isn't interested in the same thing Cynthia is in the long run and she could see that she was wasting her time, "trying to get blood out of a turnip," so to speak.

Let me take a look at your charts and it can explain some of the frustration points. We'll look at the likelihood of tweaking for better results, or the long-term predictability.

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The Deadliest Sign of All - Aquarian Male

ATTENTION - if you are a woman dating an Aquarian male, I have an important message for you. And just to let you know I know what you're going through (especially with this Mars Retrograde)

from today's mailbag:

A Michigan woman and her family were vacationing in a small new England town where Paul Newman and his family often visited. One Sunday morning, the woman got up early to take a long walk. After a brisk five-mile hike, she decided to treat herself to a double-dip chocolate ice cream cone. She hopped in the car, drove to the center of the village and went straight to the combination bakery/ice cream parlor.There was only one other patron in the store. Paul Newman, sitting at the counter having a doughnut and coffee. The woman's heart skipped a beat as her eyes made contact with those famous baby-blue eyes. The actor nodded graciously and the star struck w oman smiled demurely.Pull yourself together! She chides herself. You're a happily married woman with three children, you're forty-five years old, not a teenager! The clerk filled her order and she took the double-dip chocolate ice cream cone in one hand and her change in the other. Then she went out the door, avoiding even a glance in Paul Newman's direction.When she reached her car, she realized that she had a handful of change but her other hand was empty. Where's my ice cream cone? Did I leave it in the store? Back into the shop she went, expecting to see the cone still in the clerk's hand or in a holder on the counter or something. No ice cream cone was in sight. With that, she happened to look over at Paul Newman. His face broke into his familiar warm friendly grin and he said to the woman,

'You put it in your purse.'

If you're facing those Aquarian eyes and feel like you're about to put your ice cream cone in your purse (AGAIN!!) - let me help you. Fast!! No kidding.

And this applies to everyone.

Hate to be the one to tell you (I know you know this already) but this "holiday season" combined with Mars Retrograde, and the Jupiter thing ... not a chance. It's an astral tumult, and it applies to everyone. Let me help you navigate the astral storm. Email for a reading.

Thanksgiving Dinner Etiquette

Thanksgiving Dinner Etiquette- Holiday Manners
How to be a great Thanksgiving Guest, and have a more enjoyable time! It's all about emotional intelligence.

From the article:

The days of dining by plucking fruit from trees and roasting small animals over the fire, eating with fingers, and perhaps fighting with others over the scraps are long gone. Or are they? More and more we swing our car through the drive-in, grab our food from the window, and proceed to eat with our fingers, so perhaps you need a brush-up on the basics of formal – shall we say “civilized” dining – before the great Thanksgiving feast.

Rules of civilized dining evolved because, according to Margaret Visser (“Rituals of Dinner”), “animals are slaughtered and consumed, the guest-host relationship is … a complicated interweaving of the imposition of obligation and the suspension of hostility, and the ordinary table knife is related to actual weapons of war.”

The holidays, and Mars Retrograde will be a good time to practice your emotional intelligence because you will get lots of opportunities. Alert: Especially challenging for fixed signs.

Sarkozy (Aquarius, Virgo rising) walks out of interview

Sarkozy walks out of interview. (See video here:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/player/nol/newsid_7060000/newsid_7067500/7067514.stm?bw=bb&mp=wm&asb=1&news=1 )

What can you expect from an Aquarius with Virgo rising, Moon in Aries.

Nicolas Sarkozy, born Nicolas Paul Stéphane Sarközy de Nagy-Bocsa, president of France, was born on 28 January 1955.

He is combative, dynamic and energetic almost to the point of being hyper - certainly quick-trigger.

He doesn't like, it gets up and walks out.

He's got a 10th house Jupiter-Uranus conjunction in trine with Saturn, afflicted by a Neptune squre, which suggests scandals ... in his personal life? Could he have been defensive about this? At any rate, he doesn't like personal questions, especially about something like marriage. Does his divorce pertain to his political life? Evidentally he will let you know. He's in control.

He's known to be sharp-tongued and tough-talking (calling rampaging minority youths rabble - racaille) . He likes to control the conversation, decisively. There's another configuration in his chart that he will like media/public control. Well, there's nothing like getting up and walking out to make a point. He's already been accused of bring "an authoritarian demagogue" ...


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