Stuck? There's One Question You Should Stop Asking

People who get readings are smart, and way ahead of the game. I think they're smarter than most. I know the people I read for are!

There are different reasons people ask for readings. They may want to know HOW to get their guy back, WHICH man would be the better choice, WHEN is the best time to but that stock, IS their guy coming back, WHO they are going to marry ...
but
rarely do I get a WHY question.

Stuck In Life? Stop Asking This Question
by Bonnie McFarland

"Why?" seems like a good question, doesn't it? I certainly used to think so.

I've asked "Why?" often in my life so I must have thought it was a good question. Or maybe I never had thought about it or noticed what happened when I asked that particular question. Over time, I've gone from the questions of a toddler (Why isthe sky blue?) to the questions of a child (Why did my dog die?) to the questions of an adult ("Why did that man break up with me?). "Why?" used to be one of my favorite questions. Not any more.

A few years ago someone offered me a very different perspective on "Why?" I started paying attention to what happened when Iasked myself or others this simple question. I noticed that"Why?" was very seldom a useful question. In fact, I discovered it was often a question that worked against me. Now I do my best to not ask myself or others "Why?"

Why Not Ask Why? In your internal conversations, are you asking yourself "Why?" on a regular basis? Why do I want that? Why am I feeling depressed? Why can't I be satisfied with the job I have? Why can't I figure out what I want in life? Why did I say that? Though you may not realize it, (I certainly didn't!) there's ajudgment implied in the question. "Why?" is really more like"What's the matter with me?" or "Why can't I be different than I am?"

When you ask yourself "Why?" you experience (subtly or not so subtly) one or more of the following:

* You're in your head: analyzing, trying to figure out the answer. Even if you don't know (and much of the time we truly don't know the "real reason" we're thinking, saying, doing, or wanting something) you'll do your best to come up with ananswer. Even if you have to make it up!

* You hear the implied judgment and so you start down that road. You criticize or blame yourself. You rationalize. Youjustify. You feel defensive, bad, wrong, or wronged.

* Your energy is drained. Rarely, rarely, rarely do you get an answer to "Why?" that helps you move forward. More likely, asking "Why?" will get you stuck and off track. It takes your focus away from where you're going and how to get there, leaving you circling around in your mind. Asking "Why?" stops you. It gets in the way of creating more of what you truly want.

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Author: Bonnie Farland works with women at midlife who are bored, stuck, or restless and wondering what to do withthe rest of their lives. Visit http://www.labellavia.com/ for herfree e-book and ezine if you want to create more pleasure, passion, and purpose in your life.

Of course getting a ready can get you unstuck REALLY fast. The WHY is generally in the cards ... but so are other more important answers. For instance WHY that guy won't come back can be karma, Venus Retrograde, something a gris gris kit can address, or because he's a Leo with a Scorpio rising and you're a Gemini with a moon in Libra.

WHY are you so attracted to this one guy, so madly in love? It's in the cards. Come find out.

WHAT you can do about these things is the far more important questions ... or WHEN to do something, or HOW to get him to evolve out of that Leo-Scorpio thing.

Don't waste YOUR time asking "why". Ask a psychic/astrologer! Also learn how to phrase questions that really work for you. Wouldn't you rather know WHEN he will come back, and HOW, then WHY he is temporarily gone???

Here's an example of a good way to ask a question for a reading. Astrology can't tell you which man would be the most compatible for you (there are always "goods" and "bads") but can tell you what will happen IF with this man or that man.

Email me for a FREE mini-reading, semiramis.appiamo@hotmail.com.