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This was today's lead on yahoo.com homepage.

Is it any wonder we all turn to psychics and astrology when it comes to love? It is the most important and the most mysterious thing in life! Leading on yahoo for Valentine's Day shows how crucial this service is that we provide.

CURRENT MOON

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What Does it Mean If He Stares at Other Women?

If he's ogling other women, it's not a good sign.

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People in Love Are Blind to Pretty Faces

If your loved one claims to “only have eyes for you”

it might be truer than you think

Research shows that people in a committed relationship who have been thinking about their partner actually avert their eyes from attractive members of the opposite sex without even being aware they are doing it

it takes longer for viewers to shift their attention away from attrac­tive faces of the opposite sex.

subjects who were married

Those who wrote about love actually turned their attention away from attractive members of the opposite sex even more quickly

than they looked away from average-looking people

This unconscious attentional bias probably evolved to help men and women stay in monogamous relation­ships

in humans tend to have a reproductive advantage

These biases have been built into our psychology to enhance people’s reproductive success.”

CURRENT MOON

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New Moon in Cancer - Family. Take Care of You. Wellness.

"A Safer Place" by Fenerty

Are you watching the moon now? It won't be long.

The coming Full Moon will be in Cancer, making us more aweare about nurturing. This means you too, sweetie!

Now some astrologers are seeing this as "the ideal time to pursue your existing health and fitness goals ... or to get inspired and create new ones for yourself." (Jeff Jawer)

Since I also work in a field called emotional intelligence, I jump to the essence of Cancer (to me) - the home, the family; and the bottom line on wellness: not being isolated. Studies show that isolation ("not being emotionally connected to others"), is worse on our health than high blood pressure, obesity and smoking, perhaps even combined.

Considering that the Sun's beneficent angle to Uranus will MAKE CHANGE EASIER (at last!), I see this as the big go-ahead to change/create/re-create your "Family."

Change + family =

• Maybe you need another boyfriend


• Maybe you need to divorce


• Time to pop the question to that gal you know is the Right One


• Maybe you should move to be closer to family


• Time to adopt a child?


• Time to get pregnant?
  
• Maybe you should tell him to quit wasting your time
  
• Time for you to start dating for real?


• Maybe the conflicts within your own family have reached critical mass and it's time for you to go get another family, one that works for you

You've got thrust for wellness right now with the Sun in a harmonious angle to Uranus. It's easier to make changes, and also to envision changes, which is the beginning of being able to do it. Probably with the Pluto transit you've been considering a lot of changes. Well, there's not time like NOW.

Nurture yourself with a reading. Let me guide you on your path and show you how to use this great energy right now. Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .

If you are really into increasing your ability to connect, I recommend The EQ Course(tm). It teaches you about emotions - how they work, how to make them work for you, what the information they give you is all about,. EQ is for Emotional Intelligence. High emotional intelligence adds to your success. Remember, as my friend and fellow reader Leighton says, "The stars impel. They do not compel." The part that you can influence, is best managed with emotional intelligence.

Free mini-reading. New clients only, please. Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .

CURRENT MOON

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Palliative Care ... Dealing with Death

This transit, from which the fallout will continue for some time, was a safe time for those who wanted to get off the wheel to do so.

"Die" is the medical term for this.

At this difficult time of year, the Dallas Morning News has chosen to focus on a difficult subject -- death and dying.

Palliative care.

The huge spread is full of language like

The Angel of Death
At the edge of life
Dealing with the "D-word"
Comfort, pain emerge from hard truths
Palliative goal is easing end of life
Making the process less painful
Helping loved ones understand their choices
When medical treatment would do more harm than good

And a very special nurse named Min Patel, who works both sides of the desk, as it were. The patients and their families on one side, and the doctors on the other. For a doctor's job is to keep a patient alive and well, is it not? I have coached doctors. I understand.

And Dr. Fine who is a national expert on end-of-life lessons, as the head of Baylor Hospital's ethics committee.

Dr. Fine says he looks constantly for teaching moments about the "D-word." He talks about the elephant in every hospital room: Nobody comes to a hospital to die. When young doctors were asked how they felt about saying the D-word, they said they felt like a failure.

I'm glad there are programs now to help younger doctors learn to handle the emotions around the dying of one of their patients, when their medical knowledge, big hearts, brilliant minds, and the latest technology can no longer help, and the patient moves into Other Hands.

Somewhere in the article was a phrase I will always remember, as a coach, consultant, psychic, astrologer ... and as a human being.

It was this:
Death is a spiritual event, not a medical failure.

How Do You Say I Don't Want to Die Alone

If someone asked you what were the most frequently-requested words and phrases for translation into another language, would you have come up with this list? From the How Do You Say website:




i love you
i miss you
beautiful
how are you
go to hell
my love
goodbye
thank you so much
love
faith
i dont want to die alone
I love my wife
evil

This reminds me of Verdi's beautiful quote: "Music is about the most important things in life. Love ... hate ..."

Saturn's Return and what it means to you

SATURN'S RETURN is now playing in Sydney, Australia, the new work of Tommy Murphy. In an interview on SameSame, Murphy talks about his new play.

“It’s about the fragility of love, even if love is lost… the play becomes a
cautionary tale about how you have to hold on to those treasured moments. I hope it’s a really optimistic play about the beauty of love,” he says.

Astrologically, as you know, the Saturn Returns (between 28 years and 30; between 58 and 60; between 88 and 90) are crucial times in your life. It's a time of endings and new beginnings.

Muphy adds about his play:

“It’s about any moment for anyone, of any age, when they’re consciously entering a new chapter… I feel like that happens every Monday morning, not every 29 years!” [Murphy] jokes.

This applies to readings as well. It's very important to get a Saturn Return reading. And maybe every Monday morning, as well.

Let me read for you. This is a difficult time right nows - between 2 eclipses, the "time of surprises" until November; the Dog Days (Sirius) ... I'm here to help.

email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc . Readings by email, phone or in person (Dallas area).

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Stuck? There's One Question You Should Stop Asking

People who get readings are smart, and way ahead of the game. I think they're smarter than most. I know the people I read for are!

There are different reasons people ask for readings. They may want to know HOW to get their guy back, WHICH man would be the better choice, WHEN is the best time to but that stock, IS their guy coming back, WHO they are going to marry ...
but
rarely do I get a WHY question.

Stuck In Life? Stop Asking This Question
by Bonnie McFarland

"Why?" seems like a good question, doesn't it? I certainly used to think so.

I've asked "Why?" often in my life so I must have thought it was a good question. Or maybe I never had thought about it or noticed what happened when I asked that particular question. Over time, I've gone from the questions of a toddler (Why isthe sky blue?) to the questions of a child (Why did my dog die?) to the questions of an adult ("Why did that man break up with me?). "Why?" used to be one of my favorite questions. Not any more.

A few years ago someone offered me a very different perspective on "Why?" I started paying attention to what happened when Iasked myself or others this simple question. I noticed that"Why?" was very seldom a useful question. In fact, I discovered it was often a question that worked against me. Now I do my best to not ask myself or others "Why?"

Why Not Ask Why? In your internal conversations, are you asking yourself "Why?" on a regular basis? Why do I want that? Why am I feeling depressed? Why can't I be satisfied with the job I have? Why can't I figure out what I want in life? Why did I say that? Though you may not realize it, (I certainly didn't!) there's ajudgment implied in the question. "Why?" is really more like"What's the matter with me?" or "Why can't I be different than I am?"

When you ask yourself "Why?" you experience (subtly or not so subtly) one or more of the following:

* You're in your head: analyzing, trying to figure out the answer. Even if you don't know (and much of the time we truly don't know the "real reason" we're thinking, saying, doing, or wanting something) you'll do your best to come up with ananswer. Even if you have to make it up!

* You hear the implied judgment and so you start down that road. You criticize or blame yourself. You rationalize. Youjustify. You feel defensive, bad, wrong, or wronged.

* Your energy is drained. Rarely, rarely, rarely do you get an answer to "Why?" that helps you move forward. More likely, asking "Why?" will get you stuck and off track. It takes your focus away from where you're going and how to get there, leaving you circling around in your mind. Asking "Why?" stops you. It gets in the way of creating more of what you truly want.

For the rest of the article go HERE.

Author: Bonnie Farland works with women at midlife who are bored, stuck, or restless and wondering what to do withthe rest of their lives. Visit http://www.labellavia.com/ for herfree e-book and ezine if you want to create more pleasure, passion, and purpose in your life.

Of course getting a ready can get you unstuck REALLY fast. The WHY is generally in the cards ... but so are other more important answers. For instance WHY that guy won't come back can be karma, Venus Retrograde, something a gris gris kit can address, or because he's a Leo with a Scorpio rising and you're a Gemini with a moon in Libra.

WHY are you so attracted to this one guy, so madly in love? It's in the cards. Come find out.

WHAT you can do about these things is the far more important questions ... or WHEN to do something, or HOW to get him to evolve out of that Leo-Scorpio thing.

Don't waste YOUR time asking "why". Ask a psychic/astrologer! Also learn how to phrase questions that really work for you. Wouldn't you rather know WHEN he will come back, and HOW, then WHY he is temporarily gone???

Here's an example of a good way to ask a question for a reading. Astrology can't tell you which man would be the most compatible for you (there are always "goods" and "bads") but can tell you what will happen IF with this man or that man.

Email me for a FREE mini-reading, semiramis.appiamo@hotmail.com.